13 Aralık 2010 Pazartesi

4-) Story of an Hour

Heding of this writing was the heading of one of the essays that we read in class. If i summarize it, a woman heard about her husband's death and sat alone a hour in her room. She thought about her life, her relationship with her husband and at the end she was happy to hear about that new. A few minute later she saw her husband in front of herself and died because of heartdisease. Her husband was alive, it was just a wrong new.. I think we can take a lesson from that story. Did woman die because of excite or because of sadness? That's the crucial question. If she died becaouse of excite it is normal, it may occur in such incidents but if she died because of sadness, there is a problem at that point. If an individual deplore and die for seeing her/his spouse, that is not a marriage, that is called torture. Almost everyone have at least one relationship like this. One day you can say 'Hey! What am i doing, why am i with her/him? I'm not happy with it' Of course we can have some obligations in life and everyone haven't got the equal conditiions but we should know how and when to end these dead relations, we should know how to be happy.

3-) A Hard Decision

We have watched a video about a photopgrapher, who pinned down in a battle, several week ago. When photographer stare at a little girl with a doll, a soldier camed an aimed his gun to the girl and wanted girl to go away but the girl couldn't move because of terror. Photographer made a decision and chose to take a photo of the scene and took the photo but she obliged to watch the little girl's death, then fall into depression. Well, what would you do if you were that photographer? I think moral aspect of that incident is more important. I mean, you can win lots of reward but what about your happiness. These rewards do not mean anything to me if iam in depression because of that photo, if i am not happy. That's why i would try to rescue the girl and prefer to watch the award ceremony from my seat but cheerily. And what about you, what would you do?